Yup, perspective based.

That happens with nearly all crime. I've read several studies over the years documenting the odd phenomenon that nearly all inmates claim to be innocent and out of those who can't because the evidence is so obvious, they always have an argument that what they were doing was not their fault or should not be a crime.MSimon wrote:They put one of our NJ relatives away for 10 or 15 years. The whole family changed its mind (those who hadn't already) about prohibition after that.
If he had hurt some one the family would have been very tough on him. No mercy.GIThruster wrote:That happens with nearly all crime. I've read several studies over the years documenting the odd phenomenon that nearly all inmates claim to be innocent and out of those who can't because the evidence is so obvious, they always have an argument that what they were doing was not their fault or should not be a crime.MSimon wrote:They put one of our NJ relatives away for 10 or 15 years. The whole family changed its mind (those who hadn't already) about prohibition after that.
Doesn't change the facts about what is criminal activity.
Decades ago, a close friend's father was found guilty of stealing from the public school district he was supervisor for and spending the money on gambling. He got off with a wrist slap. Then he was warned by his own brother to stop stealing from their mother and aunt, and as he continued on, his brother pressed charges and he was found guilty. Since the prisons are so overcrowded, he got 2 years home confinement. His entire family maintained that he was innocent, despite he had embezzled hundreds of thousands of dollars from the estate of these two elderly women and spent it on new cars for all his family members, etc. Then he took a position as a financial advisor and was caught embezzling and gambling again. He's in prison.
His whole family maintains his innocence. What are they supposed to say, "Dad is a crook"?
I know someone else who has a relative who was accused of sex crimes against his girlfriend's 15 year old daughter. There were witnesses. On several occasions he tried to get the young girl to watch and pose for porn with her boyfriend, also 15. He was accused of rape as well. The evidence against him was so compelling he pled guilty, and yet all his family members claim he's innocent as does he.
The fact your mother changed her mind about what is criminal activity just because a family member is guilty of the same, is evidence of nothing. After all, she knows you're guilty of daily criminal activity. Doesn't matter that you claim the law is wrong. The fact is, if you break it daily, you belong in prison. That's what prisons are for.
I have never been a drug abuser. But I have hung around enough of them so I can "pass."You haven't had a job for 12 years because you can't pass a drug test. By your own admission you've been a drug abuser for a lot longer than 12 years.
Your ignorant, this is real. It's not peeing in a bottle, its defecating / urinating in public places, unfamiliar places or while being watched. It's a left over instinct from the days when we ran from tigers and survival meant constantly being on alert. I know this because I had the same problem, I could never pee in the urinals and had to use the toilet with the door closed. My first piss test (Military Reception) was incredibly uncomfortable and took all day. Even now, if there is a "surprise" piss test I'm gonna be there an hour or two minimum. What I've found works is drinking a metric sh!t ton of water, a few liters at least. It makes my piss clear and I end up pissing for several minutes, but they get a full g*d darn bottle so they can STFU.The "I can't pee in a bottle" bullshit story doesn't mean anything when we all know if you could, you could not pass the drug test.
MSimon wrote:If the communist in chief promises to end prohibition I'm voting for him.